I've noticed that as a group, aries people generally think libras are sociopaths. What does libras as a group think of aries as? lol, i come in peace though =)
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Sat, November 17, 2007 - 8:58 PMSociopaths? Haha thats nice.
Lets see.... Well most of the friends I had/have have been Aries. And the one thing that I guess drew me too them was their high energy (it pretty much exudes all around them) which is there for pretty much all Aries I've noticed. Another thing I've noticed is Aries don't really have hidden agendas... everything is pretty much out in the open and they are very loyal. But Aries people have been some of the meanest people I've ever met, if they get too caught up in themselves they can get superiority complexes and become bullies. When any Aries get caught up with themselves (and I've never met one who hasn't) they become incredibley inconsiderate. And when they are being compassionate they are REALLY being compassionate but most of the time they have a tendency to be selfish. And they're very selfrighteous and stubborn. -
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Sat, November 17, 2007 - 10:46 PMWell, 2 of my lifelong friend are aries. They are both female like myself...and I adore them.
On the other hand...I don't generally have long friendships with aries men...not sure why, but they usually seem very cold to me.
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Mon, November 19, 2007 - 1:34 PMYes! It seems to be all about them.
The 1st b'friend I had was an Aries, major psyco!
Wanted to rule the world and got angry easily.
He was sooo dropped!
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Mon, November 19, 2007 - 2:58 PMKeep'em comming. Theres allways room for improvment =) -
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Mon, November 19, 2007 - 2:59 PMOh and were talking about libras and aries as a group. Not your one psycho boyfriend or mother in law.
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Mon, November 19, 2007 - 11:40 PMThis is difficult because I have noticed that first decanate Aries are like... I avoid them like the plague. I DO! I don't know what it is, but they usually make me want to kill them. Childish. Inconsiderate. Impulsive. Insensitive. UGH!
But the other decanates are all right. I think they get better as they go along.
Aries and Libra have an automatic love/hate relationship. I have noticed that sometimes, I have to put my Aries folks on a shelf because they are my shadow and if I am indulging in my shadow in an unhealthy way, things could get ugly.
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Tue, November 20, 2007 - 8:25 AM
I'm an Aries with a lot of Libra spatterings in my chart...
if anything... I think that egomaniacal aries are more apt to be sociopaths...
I have some of my closest relations with Libras.
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Fri, November 23, 2007 - 9:00 PMI've never heard that said about Libras, esp. from Aries folks.
Being raised by an Aries father I can say that anger thing about Aries is totally true. Then again, I think 'angry dad' is a stereotype.
(if there was anything sociopathic about me its the way I can see both sides of anything. however; then again; yet are my favorites words/phrases. maybe thats it.)
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Fri, November 23, 2007 - 9:09 PMOne more thing....
I've only heard another Libra calls certain Libras 'sociopaths' (not exactly the word he used but the spirit of it).
Specifically, it was all Libras born with their sun in the second decanate associated with (ta-da) Aquarius.
Okay so i'm a fucking psycho. (yes, I know that "sociopath" is the technical term.)
FYI, I have four planets incl. Sun in the 2nd decanate of Libra TRINING my Aquarius Ascendant.
Sleep tight everybody! ^_~
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Sun, November 25, 2007 - 2:43 AMLol good =) As long as no one take this very personally, I'm happy.
I guess in many ways, it's the opposition thing. I bet my rommate and best budd thinks the same about me, cause it takes two. Hes not the only one to get edgy from time to time.
First decan aries are kind of the most steriotypical aries I think. Negatives sides seems stronger in them. I think Aries mellows out in later decans. -
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Sun, November 25, 2007 - 11:02 PMMy fiance is Aries with Libra moon and rising. He has an intense love for me, a Libra. We have been together this time for about 5 years, but he was my high school sweat heart, too, and tried to get me back in his life for about 10 years after high school while I was doing other things. I thought during that time he was a pain in the butt with his stubborn drive to get me back.
I know you asked for opinions of Aries and Libras as a group, not individual people we have known. Generally I find I don't like the traits of Aries people very much. I probably wouldn't have even finally fallen for my Aries man if it weren't for his obsessive persistence to get me in his life. But his intense love is very sweet, and it's great to have someone care that much.
I am rarely attracted to Aries people, though. The women I have known are too pushy for my tastes to truly like, although I do have a lifelong friend that is a typical Aries.
I have never heard Aries or anyone that I remember referring to Libras as sociopaths or anything similar to that. Maybe that is just one person's opinion, an individual case. :-)
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Tue, November 27, 2007 - 6:03 AMSociopaths? How so?
Hmm. For me personally, I love some Aries, but I cannot STAND the selfishness that most of them seem prone to. They can be kind, humorous, honest, intelligent, charming, and interesting, but in my experience they are also very competitive, inconsiderate, mulish, aggressive, and sometimes just plain rude. . It really depends on the individual; but Aries tend to be best described as a 'force of nature' personality. They are either very, very good, or very, very bad. Either way, they throw everything they have into whichever direction they are leaning towards at that particular moment.
One of my best friends is an Aries. I love her, but I honestly don't trust her. She is cute, flirtatious, smart, charming, and funny, but she is also the kind of friend who will find out what guy you are interested in, suddenly decide to be attracted to him, consider it a competition, and go after the guy herself. She also takes credit for other's work, she badmouths her friends, would rather give up a friend than listen to them correct her if she is wrong on something or if they disagree with her, is very selfish, and she is incredibly deceptive. She lies more than any person I have ever met. Unfortunately I tend to be loyal to a fault, and that is really one of the only reasons we are still friends after eight years.
So in conclusion, while I like Aries as a whole, I don't necessarily like all or every part of them.
Good luck on your quest of discovering Libran views; I hope this helps. ;) -
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Tue, November 27, 2007 - 4:14 PMYes it definately helps. I love all this feedback and I hope the whole tribe chimes in. allways interested in improving my character, and surpressing these typical negative aries traits. Kind of funny though... me and y libra friends are almost more alike than diferent. And yet, were so totally different :P
Thank you! =) All of you :)
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Wed, March 26, 2008 - 2:19 PMI have a broken english second language, but I hope it's atleast readable ;-)
I've discovered why I thought of some librans as sociopaths. It's actually a bloodshuggar thing. Those few libra indeviduals (my room mate) I've had problems with basicly has very poor eating habits. And the moodswings to follow.
Over the past few months, I have basicly taken another step towards diplomacy. Instead of argumenting against one of his many many statements and coments, I've instead asked questions like
"really?"
"care to elaborate?"
"Im not shure I understand..."
When he gets dramaqueeny and throws a tantrum I say "how am I supposed to feel now? ... what have I done to deserve this kind of treatment?" - at wich point he comes back to earth and realize what he just threw at me and feels bad.
I thought we dissagreed on everything. As it turnes out, we actually agree on everything. He just didn't mention those details vital for my understanding.
Even though we're very alike, we're still very different. He is more of a femme fatale dramaqueen and I'm the macho man who thinks everyone is a wussy :-P He is a greate fassion consultant though!
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Thu, March 27, 2008 - 5:53 AMi am with my aries soul mate ... talking long distance (aust/uk) as we both tribe.
how sad slash glorious is harmony!?!?!
and don't fo'get da lurrrrrrrrrrrve!
puuurrrrrrrrrrrrxoxox
;))
that's my views on libra/aries.
HUZZAH!
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Thu, March 27, 2008 - 11:28 PM
and NOW he's a little boy who doesnt give a fuck that he hurts me?
what is with aries boys, seriously?!?!?!?!?!?
you hurt!!!!!
me.
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Fri, March 28, 2008 - 12:18 AMI have a couple of good Aries friends. They are rather evolved and usually intelligent and upfront and honest even. The only issue I have ever had with them is that they do not always realise that their compulsivity and brusqueness may not necessarily be helpful to a situation and that they do not listen enough to understand another's point of view.
But apart from that they are loyal friends and will stick by your side through thick or thin if you are up to their mark. -
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Fri, March 28, 2008 - 12:27 AM
yeah ... yeah.
yeah.
he is so tiring though, he just doesnt realise how deep his wounds lay and then wounds me even more because it's my fault that he has to face them.
children dressed up as men mkae me heart break.
over and over and over again.
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Fri, March 28, 2008 - 8:52 AMThe only time I ever have blood sugar problems is when I'm dating someone, and we're spending time together, so I don't just eat whenever I feel like it. I put off a snack waiting till we're both eating, but other people sometimes put it off so long that I start raging and have to eat right now. When I'm by myself that never happens. When I'm with girlfriends they always eat more than I do so that never happens with them either.
I only know 2 aries that I know of, both guys, and the thing I notice most about them is their ignoring me or tearing away their attention sometimes. It hurts. I usually ignore it, and distance myself from them, but there they are again, being sweet. They're pretty hot and cold. and they're painful when they're cold, because it's so sudden.
and they stab way too deep in a fight. I guess I didn't say anything good about them and that's because I'm not getting along with them right now. did I forget to mention the drama? -
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Fri, March 28, 2008 - 5:00 PMMy father is an Aries. My mother a Leo.
Aries tend like Lady Saber said to be bent
on the conquest of others' time. And they are
supposedly the children of the Zodiac.
An old Aries hippy I know likes to sleep outside,
enjoys active pursuits, wants that others do what
he wishes to do, and as a Libra my first priority
is to lay back and enjoy, gestate, think, contemplate,
take it easy, and as such my interests don't much
coincide with this sort of Aries. But all the same,
if such a one is going to rustle up the folks to go
hiking, boating, driving up a mountain, I fall into
line rather readily. Why? Cause I have plenty of time
doing what I usually do, and without Aries I mostly
sit out or don't activate those things myself.
But that doesn't mean I'm gonna go sleep outside.
I do that often enough. I really do have to say I like
the fact that Aries is always ready to go, to explore.
Sleeping outside on the hard dirt can be fun sometimes.
Just don't get too comfortable, especially around here,
we gots the mountain lions around here.
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Fri, March 28, 2008 - 8:19 PMyeah ... the aries i speak of ... his drama comes at too high a cost ...
i think i'm ending it.
yeah.
i think i already have.
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Sat, March 29, 2008 - 2:04 PMa decisive one, aren't you? ;-) You should end it. You can do better than him =) -
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Sun, March 30, 2008 - 3:09 AMnah, he be mine ...
www.youtube.com/watch
bloody annoying tho ... i've taken to the occasional hangin up on him trick ... seems to pull him in line ;)))
minxy aren't i?!?
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Sat, May 3, 2008 - 1:48 PMyeah dont be too quick the ones opposite sides of the chart are supposed to be true loves i heard ; )
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Tue, April 1, 2008 - 2:36 PMWell, usually I have mixed views about Aries. I usually see them as being aggressive, pushy, demanding, a little bossy (though being a bossy cardinal sign myself, I can't really fault them for that without being hypocritical), and very in-your-face, on the negative side. On the positive side, they're confident, self-assured, stand up for themselves, speak their minds, and have a lot of energy. -
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Mon, May 5, 2008 - 6:02 AMIn my opinion Libras change a lot, they are not stable I can same the same about Aries but with Libras it is their mind that keeps changing and with Libras you can never be 100 precent sure if they said smth because they don't want to hurt anybody's feelings and want to be liked or they really want/ment what they said because very often they just try to be too diplomatic. Another thing Libras like to argue a lot, or discuss and sometimes that makes them annoying because they change sides and continue the discussion were they left off. What I've noticed from my Libra friends, they're really lovely people and have great taste and are good to socialise with but at the same time they're superficial (not in a negative sense) I mean they do not go too much into detail, they do not notice small nuances and details or they're not so good at reading between the lines. And they can be a big mystery when they are pondering over smth and they give out a lot of mixed messages which is sometimes very hard and makes me distrust them a little bit. In a relationship they can be very posessive, and like little children wanting all the attention to themselves. They seem to have their perfect imaginary world and they expect that everything is like that and sometimes they seem a little bit naive and blind because they do not only persuade others to believe in smth but themselves too .
Lets just say I have had a lot of experience with Libras but now I just met one Aries, who is very straighforward adventorous and intelligent - the most relaxing thing for me is that he says things out how they are and no mind games.....with a Libra I tend to feel insecure because of my past experience.
Also my father is an Aries and he was very unstable and angry at times so I believe that you do not want to make Aries mad, and the stuborness, god.....may be only Libra can persuade an Aries LOL -
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Tue, May 6, 2008 - 6:28 AMWell it's easy to persuade anyoune in todays society really. Appeal to peoples self interest. -
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Thu, May 8, 2008 - 7:56 AMHey Kiq...
Libra is ruled by air...do you understand the qualities of air?
This is about thought, vision, dreams, communication, sound, music....
Air is light and very sensitive to vibration...responsive
appreciate differences...us air people have something to offer...even if it takes us a long time to understand how to use our own procilvities.... -
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Fri, May 9, 2008 - 12:30 AMYou are right and to be honest I love Libras, I have had two wonderful relationships with them but all the beginnings were hard and i have had some bad experience too but to be honest they're one of my favorite zodiac sign so far and now I met this Aries guy and I feel more relaxed because they are so upfront and straightforward with Libra is that they always want to please others. My moon and my mars is in Libra and i have noticed a lot of Libra qualities in me as well. And I really appreciate Libras....:) and They do have a lot to offer but until they haven't decided if they really want to offer it is an emotional nightmare for the other person....because the Libra balancing it's scales takes time and there might be a lot of mind changing . -
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Fri, May 9, 2008 - 8:14 AMIt's true, it can take more time for us to decide/weigh things out. Others seem so impulsive to us sometimes...and I can see where we may try others patience. But when we decide, at least speaking for myself, my word is gold.
libra moon and mars....how does that feel? I have libra mars too, but wondering about the moon placement. -
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Fri, May 9, 2008 - 8:59 AMi have mars libra and uranus libra ... this is my first hand experience with libra ... and I was married to one for 5 years and have had a smattering of gf's when I was younger ...and I find that 90% of what is commonly said about libra is true and moreso ...
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Tue, May 13, 2008 - 11:18 AMyou know people do not consider me very capricorn at all, I change a lot, my mind I mean, and I have this thing of being afraid of confrontations and I always fall madly in love with Libras and find many similarities with them but most of the people actually ask me if I am a scorpion....my venus is in scorpion, so it is interesting -
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Sat, June 7, 2008 - 9:12 PMall my life aries have always been drawn 2 me and me 2 them. opposites really do attract. all my good friends are aries, libras,leos, and scorpios. Im a libra by the way , and when im with my aires souldjas there is always something exciting and shiny and new goin on , or at least some shit is goin down! I love that they are always down to do whatever and always defend your honor as very loyal friends and lovers. Aires have got to be my most favorite people. Its so cute how naieve and innocent they really are and i find that the confidence they have is just fine because its genuinely real (and not just a fake ego boost like a leo or something-). true that they can say some of the meanest shit i've ever heard, but lucky 4 them im there to smooth out their messes when i have to. Its always a blast of entertainment in one way or another.
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Sat, June 7, 2008 - 10:52 PMUnicorn said: "with Libra is that they always want to please others."
You know, I'm not sure this is always the truth. I am penultimate Libra,
and I find that others want me to please *them*. In fact, I really do think
we Libras are far too obliging. The expectation is that we will give into to
others demands, because we 'like to please people', we like 'relationships',
when really people manipulate us, and show little respect. The number
of times I have been taken advantage of by friends who think I owe them
something! (Maybe I am working my darkside, Aries, right now).
It's well known that a lot of Libras like to kick back and relax, contemplate the
world, take it easy, it might actually be that everyone else, especially Water
and Earth signs, being too worldly, expect Libras (Card. Air) to provide for them.
While getting little else in return but an expectation to be used in the same
fashion later on, with about as much thanks or persuasion then.
I think the Water and Earth signs are simply too attached to this world, to all
material things, and expect the more vigorous Fire and Air signs to provide
for them. Strangely, though I do not wish this to sound sexist, remember that
Fire and Air are masculine, while Water and Earth are feminine.
Therefore a Taurus Sun sign male is still feminine to the likes of me.
Which surprises some people to learn. But all the same, other signs,
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Sun, June 8, 2008 - 9:27 PMi agree with that worm. I think people know that it's our "job" and thats why they expect so much from us cuz they know what we're capable of. The same goes for all the other signs, we should expect them to actively be expressing their signs "gifts". For example, say im with my friends and another group of peeps start fckin with us..i sure as hell expect my aries friend to be the first to step up and be a warrior cuz if they didnt there's just something wrong with that. kinda dumb example, but u get what i mean. Don't u agree that it's each and every sign's DUTY to carry out what they are blessed with? Also, something i've noticed is that when a libra says something mean it seems to hurt alot more than other signs( like an aries or something who sayin mean things is nothin new..).it's like it cuts deep cuz when they're mean u know they mean it and its usually your most touchy feelings they hurt . Anyone else noticed this also? -
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Mon, June 9, 2008 - 7:14 AMActually that was a good example. When I"m out with my friends the Aries is always the one to stand up for our rights and she can be pretty direct. However, if I say the same thing everyone is in shock and hurt for days. Do you find as a Libra you are the gatherer of people. I feel like I'm always the one organizing and planning events. I'm the one that introduces everyone and gets the party started. -
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Mon, June 9, 2008 - 7:36 AMI have noticed that tendency with libras - without a Libra my yearly ski trips with friends would probably never happen etc. Libras are social butterflies. -
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Mon, June 9, 2008 - 9:05 AMAgain, I think it matters what type of Libra you are.
Rhonda is first phase, I imagine. I'm last. I really
don't like to organize anything for anyone else.
I do have a wide circle of friends, but plenty of people
in lots of signs do. I just simply don't like to be
the focus of anyone's undue attention. I like to blend
in. I am not a social butterfly. Perhaps this is a trait
more symbolic of earlier phases of Libra. I'm a
collector of information. Libra can mean weight, book,
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Mon, June 9, 2008 - 4:57 PMI'm more of a collector of people. I have friends that are later Libras and they are definitely not as social as I am. I can't help myself when it comes to gathering people.
Wormhole... what is your moon and ascending? Not that I know what any of that means yet but it would be intersting to me. I read moon is your emotions. Is that correct. -
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Mon, June 9, 2008 - 6:21 PMCancer Moon (I like to stay at home, reading)
Aquarius Rising (I'm working on this coming age)
Scales (imagine the sign of Libra, weighing options)
then Watercarrier (so, two options, weighing two options)
With Saturn in Taurus (I can be serious about material concerns,
but Taurus is linked with Venus as its ruling planet, so that is
some sort of emotional concern with physical reality)
And the rest of the stuff is in Virgo, Libra and Scorpio.
Know Thyself.
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