Some of my most intense and briefest relationships as a Libran have been with Virgos. And that's over quite a timeline. How's that for starters? I wanna see what others say, and then if you want I'll say some more. How's THAT for being a wishy-washy yet judgemental Libra?

I've never been in a relationship with a Virgo, but I can offer this. My experiences with Virgos mostly involved one constant question...

"Hello Virgo, what's wrong now?"

Which has kept me from even getting into relationships with them. I've found that even if a Virgo found a bag with a million dollars in it, they'd have something to say about the bag (why wasn't it leather, color's all wrong, waaa waaa waaaah) and complain about why it wasn't easier for them to find.

It's hard to be even friends with Virgos in my world. What Virgos I've been around, I've made the smart-assed remark, "Omigod, are you okay? Should I call a waaaambulance?"

They have a knack for wearing my patience thin.

Hey there,
I am Libra Sun and Libra rising and I have been in love with a Virgo for over 13 years now...we have been through many rounds, back and forth..there is a lot to be said for what love can get you through...I think one of the hardest things for me to get was just that he thinks so much differently than I do..just don't try to change him and make it clear to him that he can't change you...the things you have in common can be what's important to you and just work through the other things one at a time if you want it to last....it's likely that he seems to have a very one-sided perspective to things while your Libran ability to see more than one angle might make you want to shake some sense into him...use that Libra ability to try and understand where he's coming from and you may find that while his way of thinking is a lot different than yours, he might be going for the exact same results...he's earth so your airyness might be a little too energetic for him...one thing I found that works is to agree to lots of personal freedom so that you can go play with your friends and he'll have time to organize his shoe collection or whatever collection he might have or maybe read up on some crazy new theory..compromise though and give him cuddle time...he most likely loves it

Blessings to you
Ronni

I would like to read more about Libra and Virgo relationships that work. These two signs aren't very compatible, so I'd like to to read some strategies and compromises.

Thanks.

Of course I do.

My sun sits in the 6th house.
My moon is in Gemini
as if my rising
My Venus is in Virgo

However, they don't usually seem to like me very much (although Libra Rising, Virgo Sun seems to like me).

With the boys, I confuse them to the point they feel they have to be on the defense (and offense).
The girls like me initially, but it fades.

*pouts*

I dunno.

Personally, I like Virgos most of the time. My brother, grandmother, and some friends are Virgos. I usually find them intelligent and kind; I also like it that they're not usually super-aggressive (aggression is a trait that I do not like AT ALL) and that while shy they can make great friends. They can be naggy and perfectionistic sometimes, but usually their good points outweigh that.