i have no idea really what it means to be libra
i know there's this libra im interested in
do you know anything about libra/pisces dynamics?
im hoping its a good thing :)
i know there's this libra im interested in
do you know anything about libra/pisces dynamics?
im hoping its a good thing :)
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Re: a typical intrusion from a curious pisces
Wed, October 26, 2005 - 12:34 AMPotential speedbumps:
He'll *never* be happy with your internalization! You get things figured out in your head and *think* you might have told him, all the while, he's been frustrated with something you might have "sprung" on him last minute, or not communicated. Libras *like* communication..... no, LOVE communication.
Four score and 2 Pisces girlfriends later, I just WON'T go there. No offense, because I find Pisces to be immensley attractive, spiritual, and artistic folks, ....but "love" connections *just don't work* ...maybe a role in the hay, if you are into that sort of interaction. Relationships start great, and end up being frustrating.
Inevitably, there will be a Libra who will comment "My Pisces and I are GREAT!"..but they are the exception, and you two will have to be "exceptional" to make something lasting work.
That being said, who the hell am I to tell you not to try...so GOGO! ....and we'll give you a hug when it gets weird *smiles*
Air+Water = Fog ;-)
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Re: a typical intrusion from a curious pisces
Wed, October 26, 2005 - 4:19 AMthen be sure to stay away from Cancers my dear... -
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Re: a typical intrusion from a curious pisces
Wed, October 26, 2005 - 12:34 PMwow. other pisces say cancer is not such a bad desease for them. hmmm.
i have air and earth in my major aspects... i love to communicate. infact, we stayed up til like 5am this morning, just talking. so far i think i am the one to push communication on what my piscean introspection usually brings me too. he likes to keep it vague while he decides it seems - thats kind of piscean to me actually. hmmmm. hmmmm. he sure is fine!
by the way, happy birthday, y'all!
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Re: a typical intrusion from a curious pisces
Wed, October 26, 2005 - 1:09 PMI disagree with Tabitha. Cancers are good matches for Pisces. Both water, both understand the internal workings and all. I hope I didn't misunderstand you, Tabitha. :-)
Best wishes with that one, either way. I am with a Capricorn now, and by all definitions, we shouldn't really do well. But love her to death! So, carry on, and be aware that he needs communication and constant reassurance as to where you are at with everything. (at least most of the time;-)
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Re: a typical intrusion from a curious pisces
Wed, October 26, 2005 - 2:52 PMhe thanks you. :) tho he doesn't know it yet.
i can totally do that. as long as it doesn't mean he's going to forget all things of import that i say and do. -
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Re: a typical intrusion from a curious pisces
Wed, October 26, 2005 - 3:22 PMHe won't forget...but you just have to "refresh" his memory periodically *giggle*
*smiles*
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Re: a typical intrusion from a curious pisces
Thu, October 27, 2005 - 5:34 AMSweeney, you are smart and wise, good advice.
Arize, don't you have aqua rising? Or did I imagine that? I would think that would help with a partner that is libra.
Astrology can only take us so far, the rest is up to us.
But if anyone is really into compatibility charts, you need to look at the composite charts btw. people, how they relate as a couple...many times, people are completely different when it comes to being in a relationship.
Here are a few sites I suggest:
Astro.com
widgetsworld.uk
3Dastrology
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Re: a typical intrusion from a curious pisces
Thu, October 27, 2005 - 12:28 PMwell, kat, are libra's intuitive too?
my chart is in my profile. i think. at least it was at some time.
but i didn't say what my aspects were
you are right tho. i am aquarius rising. my moon is taurus. and i feel my aires mars often these days so to speak. grrr. don't mess. not very piscean.
today, im more worried about the fact that he's an ex-thug. its a little scary. then again, i love the wisdom of people who have had major trasformatins like that in their lives.
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Re: a typical intrusion from a curious pisces
Thu, October 27, 2005 - 1:43 AMSorry Sweeney, I just assumed you were a Libra...Nevermind. -
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Re: a typical intrusion from a curious pisces
Thu, October 27, 2005 - 2:42 PMI am a Libra; card-carrying and flag-waving Libra ;-)
I think our wires just got crossed somewhere. Yes, I definitely *do* stay away from Cancers. Besides (in general) they seem to always want a family, and I don't feel that this is in my cards. Thanks for the reminder :-) -
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Re: a typical intrusion from a curious pisces
Sun, November 6, 2005 - 5:48 AMMy Pisces boyfriend broke my heart--go figure. -
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Re: a typical intrusion from a curious pisces
Sun, November 6, 2005 - 4:19 PMits not gonna work out
and guess what
im too communicative for him, go figure
but we have fun talking for hours
maybe just the wrong libra
i don't like pisces dudes so much by the way. too fickle and wishy washy and spaced out. and selfish in those things. like being spaced out and fickle is more important than anything. :) sorry to hear about your heart break. -
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Re: a typical intrusion from a curious pisces
Sun, November 6, 2005 - 4:22 PMyea arize--does the term " I meant what I said at the time" ring a bell? OMG that about killed me. A direct stab to my heart. Ouch, it hurts.
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Re: a typical intrusion from a curious pisces
Mon, November 7, 2005 - 11:23 AMPisces + Libra = endless miscommunications (Pisces simply doesn't know how), frustrations (Libra will tire of bowing to Pisces' numerous irrational whims), and a passive-agressive duel to the death. Libra hates to argue, but also holds relationship ideals close to his heart; when Pisces tries to subtly manipulate Libra like she does (successfully) to most of the entire rest of civilization, Libra will evade the attack waiting for Pisces to communicate like any other adult human being, and when Pisces is consistently unable to, Libra will lose respect for Pisces. In response, Pisces grows more clingy and emotionally demanding. It's a never ending cycle between the two, and both are usually too romantically idealistic to know when to call it quits, so Libra puts up with emotional abuse, and Pisces thinks that she is putting up with the same by feeling neglected, but really she is just too clingy, needy and weak for a sign like Libra, who appreciates some level of mutual independence/personal will/intellectual mindset in a relationship. At least that's been my experience with Pisces! If someone I find attractive turns out to be a Pisces, I run. Water signs in general, bad bad news. They are, more often than not, insane. Pisces should stick to the other equally crazy water signs or the earth signs who find their pathetic, starry-eyed nature cute, and leave well-meaning Libras alone.
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Re: a typical intrusion from a curious pisces
Mon, November 7, 2005 - 3:51 PMI agree with everything Benji said and then u can double it.....I would have to be semi-conscious and out of my mind to ever consider a close personal/loving relationship with a Pisces.....friendships are ok, but not anything more. :)(: -
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Re: a typical intrusion from a curious pisces
Mon, November 7, 2005 - 7:09 PMYea, let's see..what did he say..."your love freaks me out", "Your sophicating me". Funny how that can happen when I might seem him twice a week. Truly I'm in awe. I thought I was past such shocking behavior at 39 but I guess not. It's a flip of the coin really. I got tails this time. -
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Re: a typical intrusion from a curious pisces
Wed, November 9, 2005 - 5:19 PMWOW! well i appreciate the input.
im kinda laughing, tho
cause i find this particular libra too clingy for me. like he needs way too much physical reassurance. you know, when you hug someone but its cause they really want you to and you're like looking around the room wondering...
at the same time
well, in my last post, he and i had already had a falling out of sorts. or well not a falling out as much as an exposing misunderstanding.
anyway but since then we talked it out pretty successfully. actually i was feeling like "at last, an adult who can talk things out without all the stupid drama". but then, i've been with a scorpio for 2 years who is completely unable to communicate like a normal human being - defensive, curt, evasive, evasive, evasive, evasive.... anyway so maybe the libra conversation is just what i need right now.
despite all rumors we seem to communicate really really well and we seem to be able to recognize and acknowledge where it is we just don't understand each other or just don't agree with each other with out it being ugly and/or harsh and/or confusing.
but then, i'm not the squishy lost type of pisces.
"your love freaks me out"
that's classic.
i don't like pisces dudes. they freak out too easy.
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Re: a typical intrusion from a curious pisces
Wed, November 9, 2005 - 5:56 PMWater signs are not insane Benji that would be like me saying air signs are emotionally devoid of feeling, cold as ice and completely shallow.
I think we need to recognize that not only do ALL signs have a different way of expressing themselves and working out their issues but ALL of us have most of the signs in us.
And for the record, if my scorpio makes me so watery or...unstable say, than what does my libra rising, libra mercury and libra uranus do? Does it not lessen the intensity, allow me to see more of both sides? Look for justice, try not to make black and white statments? -
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Re: a typical intrusion from a curious pisces
Fri, November 11, 2005 - 7:29 PMKat, I have Scorpio in my chart as well, but I maintain my point of view. If you need me to personalize it, then I could say Water Signs are too insane for me personally to put up with, generally, but specifically impossible in a romantic relationships. I have, throughout my life, managed to consistently have at least one female Scorp friend around, though notably their sun sign tends to be their only watery aspect.
Remember that as energies, Water and Air are opposites, and more incompatible with eachother than other combos, Water being Feminine/Negative and Intuitive, Air being Masculine/Positive and Thought-Oriented. (Water/Fire=intuitive; Air/Earth=thought-oriented). They are bound to see things completely differently. Air signs are typically rational, communicative and positive; Water signs are typically irrational, emotive and negative.
All signs do have different ways of dealing with things. As a logical and peace-loving Libra, the violent and often inexplicable moodswings and lack of rational, communicative thinking I have experiences in Water Signs is unbearable. GWB, for example, is a typical Cancer: thinking he knows what's best for everyone and bossing people around to ultimately gain personally and yet be revered as a Hero. Water signs are easily the most deceptive of the Zodiac.
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Re: a typical intrusion from a curious pisces
Sat, November 12, 2005 - 7:02 AMBenji, I think on some level not so deep I am looking for validation that water and air can be compatible and perhaps putting too much importance on astrology. Reason being I just met an air sign, he is Oct. 23 1974 libra/scorp cusp with an aquarius moon and I can't help but worry (mars in virgo) that we are incompatible, me being a scorp with a pisces moon.
Although I feel a lot I also think a lot and believe I can step back and be objective despite my watery nature. The most important thing to me in a relationship is to have a friend that I can talk to and of course want sexually but more than anything, I want that cerebral soulmate.
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Re: a typical intrusion from a curious pisces
Mon, November 28, 2005 - 11:16 AMby way of update
i think we are falling madly in love
i think there are many obsticles we can over come
cause whatever our periferal misunderstandings may be, we seem to be able to understand each other somewhere deep and it gets us by... -
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Re: a typical intrusion from a curious pisces
Mon, December 5, 2005 - 11:32 AMand we are blowing benji's suppositions completely out of the water
(hehe, "out of the water")
cause those descriptions fit neither of us.
im intuitive AND thinking AND communicative
he spends a lot of time being quiet (unless he is telling a funny story) and observing but doesn't much communicate his thoughts
we are both somewhat peace loving and both have a very strong and driving sense of justice and fairness
but he's an ex-thug who is not so far from his violent side
and i can relate cause i have that side in me too
i think that is bullshit to say that all water signs are as you say. or at very least, quite arrogant, or maybe too self-assured, or narrow in a way that could make you lonely. but i suppose that's your's to deal with.
anyway, i just wanna say that things are not working at all like anyone here thinks they would have, and over in the pisces tribe, they don't really know anyway... he and i are getting along very very very well, no hitches, no strange miscommunications, very very well.
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Re: a typical intrusion from a curious pisces
Wed, April 2, 2008 - 10:12 AMI feel that water and air can be compatible and perhaps even more so than air/fire or water/earth. I think this way because water and air are more abstract and fire/earth are more concrete; I feel often that air and water can understand each other better because their mode of thinking is more abstract whereas fire and earth are the opposite. I also happen to have a lot of water in my chart (Venus, Jupiter, the Moon, and Pluto), so even though I'm a Sun and Mercury sign Libra, I like deep soul-reaching connections and I tend to find that those happen more with water signs than other signs.
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Re: a typical intrusion from a curious pisces
Sat, June 21, 2008 - 9:15 PM>>They are, more often than not, insane. Pisces should stick to the other equally crazy water signs or the earth signs who find their pathetic, starry-eyed nature cute, and leave well-meaning Libras alone.<<
Hahaha! Oxygen! Oxygen! This was hilarious! Benji, you are FUCKED up! But, damn-near *everything* you described above in that thick paragraph is *exactly* what happened with the last girl I was with (she was a Pisces.) However, I'm a Libra who has heavy Scorpio in my chart, and she was really the only truly *hellish* experience I had with a Water sign (not counting the constant clashing of wills with an ex Sun-sign Scorpio friend, which is a little different than the situation described here.) I wouldn't necessarily go so far as others do (on many astrology tribes), and say that I'm biased against certain signs (or elements), because I've dealt with great people, as well as despicable cretins in *every* sign and element I can think of (yes, other Libras, too.) But, in any event, alot of this was interesting (and funny!)
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Re: a typical intrusion from a curious pisces
Mon, June 23, 2008 - 5:04 AMIf you are Libra and looking for a saving grace in your Pisces' mate's chart, look out for steadying influences such as planets in Capricorn, Taurus and in Virgo. Virgo is an earth sign but it is also ruled by Mercury and is analystical, intellectual at best. If you wan to see if communication will be a problem, then look out if your Pisces mate has planets in his 3rd house or if the MC is in Gemini, Libra or Aquarius. Ascendants in the abovementioned air signs would be a good thing to look out for. That would mean that communicating would be a lot more natural to him or would at least be one part of him that is most visible to the world.
For Librans who are all for structured communication, see if you have any planets in water signs (the favourably aspected the better) and you might help activate if not strengthen your own intuition because Pisces do not communicate in a structured way it's all mood and emotions. Libras born in the 1970s are likely to have some planets or planetary placements in Scorpio and that might help with the analysis and understanding of the Pisces folk.
Hope that helps.
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Re: a typical intrusion from a curious pisces
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Re: a typical intrusion from a curious pisces
Wed, April 2, 2008 - 7:54 PMwhat about a libra sun with a taurus sun pisces moon?
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Re: a typical intrusion from a curious pisces
Wed, April 2, 2008 - 10:10 AMI have a lot of water in my own chart so I find that I usually like water-sign people (although unfortunately I *do* have difficulties with Scorpios sometimes). I like Pisces because they are usually 'deep', understanding, tolerant, accepting, don't usually judge, are creative and artistic, and usually have good taste in aesthetics.
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Re: a typical intrusion from a curious pisces
Sun, June 22, 2008 - 11:23 AMAs a Pises sun with gemini rising=communication, and 4 planets in Aquarius- I think it just depends on your whole chart., because you
are not just a sun sign. You are a combination of things.
I started looking into my chart because every woman Ive been involved with- long term-short term has either been a Libra sun-or rising.
Like Pisceans- there was a common thread-creativety-love of sexual adventure-but they were not all the same. But the attraction was always there-and I never went looking for any specific sign.
I think I was much more of a communicator in all situations-and was much more forthcoming with my emotions.
The thing I also love about Libras is their logic and ability to just do it-not think about it so much.
Also Pisces is ruled by Neptune, Libra by Venus-it is said in partnership we like to be with each other more than anyone else.
I dont think saying yes or no by someones sun sign is the way to go- if you like anyone-give and take- be willing to do the work.
I am actually going to my last patners commitment ceremony in S.F. in a couple of months- she is a Libra. We were together for 7 years-
I ended it because she was not able to open up about things that bothered her-a wall was always up, and it prevented us from really
moving.But we really are connected.
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Sun, June 22, 2008 - 11:27 AMP.S.
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Sun, June 22, 2008 - 2:23 PMi am a libran fire snake (psssssssssst!) and am totally in love with my one, my piscean goldfish ... fotos on my profile!
how phwoary is he!!!!
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Re: a typical intrusion from a curious pisces
Tue, June 24, 2008 - 4:49 PMLast night I had my chart read by David Ray, he does Vedic Chart readings-these are based on you asc. and moon-
I specifically asked him why I always got involved with Libras or Libra Asc. He said that with Gemini Asc. and so much Aquarius in my chart that Libra was my missing air.
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Re: a typical intrusion from a curious pisces
Thu, June 26, 2008 - 1:32 AM
YUP!
i've caught my goldswothy fishie ... and neither of us could be more in love (and lust 8 ^ ))) than ever before, despite his mother, and despite my family probs ...
at least his dad and his da'd parent's like me ... wen to the footie with them and his g'ma was so pleased to have another roosters supporter that she bough me a new hat!!!
yay!
cheers to pisces and librans!!!!
and here's to mermaidens and their chosen ones!
xox
slainte!
but what makes me sad is my latest blog bout the ferry disaster in the philippines and burma et.al
ahhh, how my mind, body, soul and heart ache for those lost ... and rejoice at the (thus far) 28 survivors .. mainly male ..
the victims were largely women and children ... i was in greece, 1st on the scene in paros in sept 2000 ... the wails, screams and flare guns will never ever leave my heart ...
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Re: a typical intrusion from a curious pisces
Sat, June 28, 2008 - 2:47 PMYeah! I like you Libra, a fair and balanced response! And humanitarian at that.
I think after being on these sun sign, moon sign etc. sites with everyone saying no to this person and that person I would
just encourage people to have a chart done and read by someone who does it . It really just points out strengths and weaknesses that we all have, and you can choose to work on them. If you have problems in a relationship have a composite chart done. It helps to actually
see it- and hear it from someone else.
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