Sag Female & Male Libra - Help Please!

topic posted Mon, May 12, 2008 - 1:32 PM by  Smiley!

I'm so confused right now! I met this Libra man over a week ago my friend told me he was single so I never asked him and he acted like he was single. The same night I met him well, I stayed the night. That is not normal for me even though people say Sags do that. We didn't have sex just kissed, danced, he sang to me and I slept with him holding me. The next day I left early because I had to work and he was still sleeping. He texted me later that night to ask how I was doing since we were up really late and I had to work so early. I told him it was going to be an early night but I was ok. We hit it off with such a connection and chemistry that I don't remember the last time I felt that. Well, I text him the following night to see when he might want to meet up again and he didn't know because he had some things to figure out first. I asked him if he had a girlfriend and he said no but he has been hanging out with a girl but it was soon to end. I was like ok well, we could just be platonic then. Well, he didn't respond for a couple of days. Then he text's me to see what I was doing and I told him I was in for the night watching a movie. He said he was home too. I asked him if we are going to talk on the phone or hang out soon and he said give me a couple of days to figure out my situation. I asked him what situation. He said the one with the girl because he really liked me and was pulling my chain and wants me around but he doens't want to be just platonic and he would like to see where it goes. I asked if we can talk on the phone and he told me he wil call before the weekend is over. Well, I never got that call. So, now what do I do? Do I just stay away? He made it sound at first like him and this girl was casual then it sounded like it was more than casual. Not sure what to think but he is making sure he stays away from me now except by keeping in touch every couple of days. I am just doing my own thing in the meantime but crap, I haven't had anyone make me feel like he did in such a long time. What do you think?
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Smiley!
Seattle
  • Re: Sag Female & Male Libra - Help Please!

    Tue, May 13, 2008 - 11:39 AM
    I think he is as confused as you are, he doesn't know what to do and he is trying to figure this out, it might go eather way. Libras make you feel SOOOOOO GREAT that you actually start believing in fairy tales, I have been there, but at least he is honest about being confused about the situation - but right now he is figuring out the pro's and cons of both you and the other girl - you know like scales - balancing and trying to find the right thing to do. Other thing Libras hate to hurt people and they do not want to be unfair but acting like that they actually very often hurt others. Do not push him too much, you may confront him with a positive attitude - like very objectively and just hear him out but if I were in your shoes would just let it be, give him his downtime - they do like to disappear and rethink things....and do not get the hopes too high because it could be eather way. As much as I have experienced, Libras are in Love with the feeling or Idea of being in love and they are often chasing the 'phoenix' bird that doesn't exist, so the brief time you were together you must have had this impact on him which made him doubt about the other 'situation'
    But the sentence that 'he wants to see where it is going' - to me seems like even if he he does choose to see where it is going with you he is still testing the waters and you never know when he might change his mind. I do not want to be negative I am just talking from my experience with several Libras in a relationship and every time there was this - give time to think period and if they discover thta they ahve made a mistake then they reconsider and then again ...depends on the person of course and his patterns- Libras are constantly trying to reason their own impulses so...to be honest I think he is even more confused than you are. I wish you good luck and patience - be there for him - be perfect as you are, be positive and that's all I can say....libras are AIR - you cannot catch air.....
    • Re: Sag Female & Male Libra - Help Please!

      Wed, May 14, 2008 - 8:08 AM
      Well, I did try to call him on Monday and no answer of course. Then I told myself I wouldn't contact him well, then Tuesday I was having a real bad day so, I did text him to see how he was doing well, no answer. So, I left a final text and said well since you don't talk to me on the phone and you don't respond to my text then I guess I will just leave you alone and maybe we will see each other around. Not even 5 minutes later I get a text back from him telling me I am just killing him here lol and that life has been really hectic lately and his sleep schedule is all screwed up also he had to help bury the girl ( that he says he that it's not working out ) her animal yesterday. Well, I told him I'm sorry for bothering you and I will not do it anymore. He said I wasn't bugging him and that he just has alot going on right now. He said he was only joking about things. Again, I said I'm sorry but I rather be around someone or at least hear their voice to know what is going on instead of texting so I will leave you alone and not bug you and if you want to talk then call me. He says it's all good. Now, it's funny how he said he would call and didn't but I can understand that something happened to his friends animal but he keeps telling me that it's not going to work out between them and end soon but he is only hanging out with her. Hanging out with a girl casually and actual having a relationship is two different things or do Libra men think it's the same thing? To me, it seems like if I push him to just say see ya around then he responds but if I try and have a conversation with him well, he ignores it. He doesn't know what he wants does he? Well, I don't want to be hanging on to a possiblity of something when there are no concrete signs that it's going to happen. Does that sound about right?
      • Re: Sag Female & Male Libra - Help Please!

        Wed, May 14, 2008 - 10:54 AM
        Its not the sign, its the attitude..people give of their selves what they want, or what they are ready for, or maybe they are being duplicious in their lives..

        no one is too busy or sleepy to at least return a phone call for a few moments,
        an excuse is just that, an excuse...

        personally after two phone calls i don't make a third...two phone calls is enough to let a person know you're interested, after two then you are doing the hard work and the other person is contributing, not much

        maybe the time is off, maybe there are too many maybes...anyway
        do you want to be around a man who is like this under pressure, what do you think is going to happen when he's really under pressure, like actually haveing to relate...
  • Re: Sag Female & Male Libra - Help Please!

    Tue, July 15, 2008 - 3:30 PM
    Well I'm a Libra female married to Sag male for 10 years..kinda reversed but Libra is attracted to you and likes your attitude towards life. My husband is very adventurous and introverted.. I'm the opposite..
    Yes we had had our ups and downs..but the chemistry is def. there.
    However, I really this these signs are really good friends more than anything. So I would just be patient and see what happens. You never know.

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