Ok, so I hate to ask questions like this but i can't help it. There is this Libra girl I go to school with who I am very attracted to. I have yet to talk to her but everytime we pass eachother around campus there is a moment of eye contact that couldnt be mistaken for anything but interest. The kind of strange thing about this is that I've even seen her around town but we never talk. Its like a quick moment of recognition and than look away and pretend we didnt notice eachother. I feel like im in grade school all over again. So my question: How does one approach a Libra in an effective manor. I dont know if this makes a difference but Im Leo sun Aries rising and Sagittarius moon. Any insight is appreciated.
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Re: How to approach a libra?
Sun, November 4, 2007 - 9:04 PMI like a honest, down to earth, friendly approach...like hi...my name is Mathew...beautiful day isn't it? Or noticing something you like about me that you admire or like and saying something about it...flattery that's true is good.
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Re: How to approach a libra?
Mon, November 5, 2007 - 12:23 AMI'll agree with Jeannie on that. Plus a smile wouldn't hurt :)
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Re: How to approach a libra?
Mon, November 5, 2007 - 7:57 AMYes, eye contact and a smile are good...oh and a kind voice...we vibe a lot off of the voice
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Re: How to approach a libra?
Mon, November 5, 2007 - 3:32 PMSmile.
Wink.
Be genuine and transparent about intentions.
Compliment her on her beauty -- without expecting a compliment back.
(which could be hard for a Leo... *grins*)
Don't be afraid to make the first move and, in fact, make the first move.
I don't know if other Libras are like me, but I can look at beautiful people till the cows come home. It is when I know that someone else is interested in me (without me having to elicit attention or anything) that is a huge turn-on and makes me like jelly. I think Libras want and like to be wanted...
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Mon, November 5, 2007 - 3:32 PM... and liked...
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Re: How to approach a libra?
Mon, November 5, 2007 - 8:38 PMYes, I agree with SteamPoof about how to approach a Libra. I like it when I get a compliment about my looks, or an ability of mine gets noticed. But it should be about something you actually believe is worth commenting on. If you flatter her just to be saying something flattering, it may come across as patronizing and not good.
Smiles always have worked well for me. Winks, not so much, though. It seems a bit devious.
I think Libra and Leo is a good pairing. So be confident that she will respond. I like it when a man appears confident. Continue to show interest in her. If she asks about you, tell her things about you, but then bring the conversation back to her. Sometimes Leos tend to keep the conversations centered on themselves. Let her know by your interest in her that she is that someone special. -
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Re: How to approach a libra?
Mon, November 5, 2007 - 9:33 PMThanks, these are all really helpful pointers. I think that I need to make a conscious effort to smile when I see her because usually when we cross each others paths it is usually by surprise and I honestly forget to give a smile. Partly because she never smiles or really puts it out there that she is interested, even though somehow I can tell she is. But from what Im reading I can't wait for her to make the first gesture of interest.
Its kind of funny that i've never been interested in any libras before. Usually the people I find attractive put their message out loud and clear. As I get older though i'm finding that I sort of like to take the initiative and am less attracted to those that thrust themselves on others.
Again, thanks for the insight from all of you. I'll keep you posted on the happenings. That is of course if I can find the courage to approach her, hahaha. -
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Re: How to approach a libra?
Wed, November 7, 2007 - 4:38 AMYou are right -- you cannot wait for a Libra to make a first move. I mean, I guess... well, I think I have made the first move before, but I am nearly certain that the person showed hard-to-miss interest or invitation...
I never figured it as a Libra thing, tho... really. Always felt it was... my own fear of rejection.
Leos are MADE of courage. Well, unless you are one of the shy Leos. They are so cute!
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Wed, November 7, 2007 - 11:29 PMLooking forward to hearing what happens Matthew ;-)
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Re: How to approach a libra?
Thu, November 8, 2007 - 6:31 PMI would really like to hear that something clicked out of this. From my non-straight perspective and tastes: she's doing the right thing by paying attention. I say that not just through my only-human reactions based on the gift of sight but also because I'm seeing some intelligence and depth in you, and that hints at patience and sensuality and "listening" <-------key word, I think.
I'm not the greatest flirt or matchmaker, but something I want to picture is a sudden and drastic change in facial expression in you when you see her--like from mundane, get-through -the-day stone face to a full stop blank (when she is THERE) to a complete smile--and having that work as an initial step, if there have not been any developments thus far.
That might be gay though, ha ha.
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Re: How to approach a libra?
Fri, November 9, 2007 - 11:00 PMHey, you aren'r the only gay!
Yay gay Libras!
And you are right -- that has always made me feel special.
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Re: How to approach a libra?
Wed, November 7, 2007 - 4:35 AM*Hee* re: wink I cusp Scorpio.
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Re: How to approach a libra?
Tue, November 6, 2007 - 9:55 AMWith open hand and open heart :-)
We dont like playing games, get to the point and we will respect you.
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Re: How to approach a libra?
Fri, December 14, 2007 - 7:39 PMThis is easy - chat her up and make her laugh! That should be no problemo for a Leo :-)
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Tue, January 8, 2008 - 6:56 PMSo did anything come of this attraction to the Libra girl? -
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Re: How to approach a libra?
Tue, January 8, 2008 - 9:11 PMYes! I was wondering the same thing....progress???
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Re: How to approach a libra?
Tue, April 1, 2008 - 2:53 PMGiven that I'm a Libra woman who has had a bad experience with Leos, I'd like to advise Leos that if they want a Libra, they should be loyal, not talk about their old girlfriends or brag about their love life prior to meeting the said Libra, and that the Leo should not ask a Libra to give her body to him without giving first giving her his heart. Be honest with your Libra woman, make sure she is your one and only if you are serious about her, and don't make her feel inadequate by constantly bringing up your old flames: this hurts very, very deeply, especially since the Libra woman wants to please her partner more than anything and not being able to measure up really makes her feel down (or at least this was true in my case). This is especially true if your Libra has (as I do) Venus in Scorpio.
I can't speak for all Libras of course, but at least this Libra (who has a lot of water in her chart) really goes for the romance type. Beauty, elegance, the arts, and class are a must; as a Leo, these are some of your stronger points. Be gentle, noble, sweet, and treat your Libra lady as an equal, not a subordinate. Talk to your Libra and find out what's really special to her. She's probably opinionated, so ask her what she thinks about things and engage in a (friendly) debate or exchange of ideas. Show her that you value her and make her feel that she is attractive, wanted, and appreciated: make her feel as though she is really important to you and that you think she is a special lady. That should do the trick. It might be a good idea to look at the rest of her chart if you can get her birth info from her and compare what the rest of your charts are like.
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Re: How to approach a libra?
Sat, June 7, 2008 - 8:19 PMIm a libra female and I'll tell you how to do this. 1- your appearance must scream genuineness ., 2- the longer you keep waiting will turn her off..better too much too soon than too little too late. 3- be funny 4- be creative !! nothing is sexier) 5- last but not least romance , all those things from leaving a cute lil note on her windshield, white roses, remembering the little things like her fave flavor of ice cream and surprise her with it , for example. Don't forget to tell her how BeAuTiFuL she is. This mite seem alot but it's really a small price for the most amazing girl you will ever meet.
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Re: How to approach a libra?
Wed, July 16, 2008 - 8:21 PMJust approach her..she knows u like her anyway. But I can understand you hesitating..so maybe ask for her number or something and tell her you will call her sometime.
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Fri, July 18, 2008 - 11:21 AMHeck! Once you give her a dazzling smile and open with the "Hi, I know this is kinda forward, but I've seen you around..dadadada.." kinda stuff. Once you have a conversation if you somehow insert the fact you BOTHERED to find out she was a Libra? That'll give a brownie point. Some forms of flattery are not always compliments. It will pique her vanity, esteem and pleasure. It wil give you that chance for more contact fer sdure..
But I am a Libra a little right of Libra center, with a heavy earth over water chart except my moon..... LEO.