Your most Compatible Sign as Libra

topic posted Wed, March 16, 2005 - 11:53 PM by  Sweeney
Hello beautiful fellow ones, (and you know you are *snicker*)

I am taking a poll to see what your most compatible sign has been. Clearly other Air signs win hands down, but I have done well with Taurus. When it comes to the bedroom, there is no beating the chemistry between Libra+Libra, Libra + Leo, Libra + Aquarius, and Libra + Aries (sometimes.) What do you think? Have you experienced some of the same? This chemistry sometimes works behind in the sheets (satin sheets, or course ;-), but then when exploring relationships, things can change dramatically.

Signs I won't go NEAR!! = VIRGO!! - Pisces - Scorpio - CANCER!

This is just one Libra's experience....have you had a different one?

Curiosity is eating away....do tell!
posted by:
Sweeney
SF Bay Area



  • ummm....libra + sagi, gemini, libra, taurus, pisces

    behind closed doors...
    libra & libra ~ same difference...kinda boring...
    libra, taurus & pisces ~ woooo HOT & quite passionate!
    libra & sagi..passionate

    mental stimulation...
    gemini, sagi, libra

    i think i'd really like a sagi...pisceans are cool too and kinda enjoy the bantering but both can be quite aloof and occasionally non-communicative!


  • Best: She's a Leo. There is a true depth there. We are no longer together but still good friends.

    Worst: Capricorn. Selfish, Self centered, wouldn't lift a finger or go out of her way for me at all. She takes no responsibility for any wrong doing. She can do no wrong.
    • i like some Leo or Sagitarius.
      Virgos are a pain in my ass.
      • OMG I dated a virgo and it was hell!
        • Cancer and Pisces, I stay away from.

          Capricorn and Geminis make excellent friends.

          Leo and Sagittarius can be good but I dated a leo and he wasn't into giving me compliments, courting and such. Brought me stability but forget about the romance...

          I am in a relationship with an Aquarius right now and yes, the sex is mindblowing and fantastic. A great chemistry.
          The roller-coaster syndrome is definately there as a lot of drama involved.
          Socially we are both quite similar. We both enjoy the company of genuine individuals. We are both very honest and loyal.
          I am curious to see how we will evolve in the long run...
          Who knows?
  • <<Signs I won't go NEAR!! = VIRGO!! - Pisces - Scorpio - CANCER! >>

    Why not cancer?
    • Hi Heather....

      Nothing personal if you have cancer in your chart or know cancers, but my experience has been that they hold on to the past SO much with their claws that it keeps them from being present. They are also hard on the outside; its hard to tell what they think and feel, unless you get close to them, which can take a REALLY long time with trust and all.

      This is not to say that cancers are bad folk; as stated in the originally message, this is JUST my experience with them. They also inevitably want families, and I don't see this in the cards for me (again, this is a persona reason.) I was just curious to see what kind of experience others had. If I may employ modern slang for a moment,........"Its all good :-)"

      Peace Lib's
      • <<but my experience has been that they hold on to the past SO much with their claws that it keeps them from being present>>

        I have found this... I need to constantly support that I am not that girl from the past. I am someone new, and I am now.

        I think one of the things that saves me is that he is on the cusp a bit. He definitely communicates his positive feelings.
  • Unsu...
     
    This is my personal top three... I posted this earlier this year...

    I believe it depends on what type of Libra you are. This is what I've found of all the Librans I've met.

    1. Leo - for the mostly balanced Libra, equally outgoing & internal
    2. Gemini - for the more internal, sedate Libra
    3. Sag - for the more playful, outgoing Libra

    My hubby's a Leo, w/ Gemini rising. Leos don't operate on lies, manipulations and games, not a fan of whining people either. They do what they want, when they want and always ready to listen with an open heart. If you know what you want in life, they're supportive and never stands in the way of your goals. Leos are kings, and do best with queens at their side (and vice versa). They don't mind giving advice and helpful suggestions, but if you're looking for someone to help guide you through life, they'll eventually see you as a lesser creature, not able to stand on your own two feet.

    Geminis are the best, most long lasting friendships a Libra can form. Twins and scales. I know a couple like this and they're always taking turns being the rock. Geminis will take their time and develop a friendship before taking the next step, which is in tune with Libras ability to weigh all sides.

    Sag's make great playmates for Libras. They can be your best friend in an instant and stay that way for years. They're the 'partner-in-crime', and the relationship has fun fun fun written all over it.

    Just my opinion... I didn't get it from a book. Just what I've noticed in my world.
    Hope it helps!
    • As a single person interested in the astrology of my past and present relationships,

      I am most eager to meet
      Gemini, Aquarius

      Am generally interested in
      Sagittarius

      Interested with some hesitations
      Aries, Scorpio, Libra

      Probably not the best choice but who knows anyway?
      Capricorn, Leo

      Really bad for me but I always get seduced goddamn it!
      Taurus

      Just friends.
      Virgo

      Never, ever touch again!
      Pisces, Cancer
      • For me it is definently Gemini. All of my best friends throughout my life and my lover have been geminis.

        A very good balance!
        • I just have to think it is funny that the longest relationships I have had were with cancers.

          Kind of funny.
          • Like Scorpio, I have found that cancers dig into you and hard time letting go. Have you been the one that breaks up in the past, or your cancerian? Does he still want to have contact, or does he hold serious grudges? All cancerian questions to ask.

            I briefly dated a Cancer moon (leo sign), MAN! that was a tuffy. You never know when there was going to be an out-of-balance emotional display....it could happen at any time. Can you say "Emotions-on-stage" (leo-cancer moon?)

            Anyway, thanks for your feedback fellow lovelies. It confirms a few things that I have felt in these areas. Although, now I am interested in meeting my moon sign.....Sagittarius! The consensus is that they might work for me and I have never been with one.

            Peace :-P


            from heather:
            I just have to think it is funny that the longest relationships I have had were with cancers.
            • That's so true... I have moon in cancer and I think I get too emotional sometimes that people just get annoyed lol. I'm aquarius rising though and I don't think I'd even be able to handle myself as a friend. I feel like sometimes I push everyone away or I pull everyone towards me so tightly... that it just pushes them away lol. Anyway.. I kinda like this libra.. I've been hearing a lot about great sex between libra-aquarius =P
    • I think you've hit it on the nose, except for myself I'd substitute Sag with Aries, oooh the opposite attraction produces such great sex!

      Leos are the solid foundation libras need with enough energy and warmth to keep them interested

      Geminis are fabulous communicators and share similar tastes and humors

      Platonic friendwise though my best same-sex friends have been Taurus and Cancers (maybe due to my scorpio ascendant, but who knows)

      I stay far away from Taurus men, Piscean men and Virgos, ouch they know how to reel you in and then tear out your heart!
      • Unsu...
         
        I have a Scorpio rising too. My best friend is a female Cancer, my ma is a Taurus & my da is Gemini. That could be due to the Scorpio-ness.

        Male Taureans dislike me after awhile, because I don't do what they want all the time - plus they make this face like they're listening, when they're actually thinking of what to say next. A huge no-no for me, so I walk away.

        Male Pisces tend to go psycho on me, because I don't fall for the Jedi mindtricks. Male Virgos immediately get on my nerves with all the lost & forlorn "the sky is falling" crap.
        • that is sooo true! ha very funny

          taurus men think they know everything, pisces men pretend they know nothing and virgos think they're so complex and mysterious but really they're just shy and slightly insecure.

          do you have a love-hate relationship with your best friend too? are you more like sisters than best friends?
    • You really think Gemini and Libra make a good match? I had a horrible experience w/ a Gemini..IT was good for a short time but then the nagging and the fighting startedand the stubbornness set in...They are great in bed but I feel a L-G relationship can sometimes end there. Gemini men tend to lack communication and they dont really put any effort into the relationship...but that my opinion
      Lisa
  • Unsu...
     
    As a roommate: Libra
    As a friend: Gemini
    As a lover: Sagittarius
    As a life partner: ? (maybe somewhere between Gemini & Libra)
    • Try this - it often workZ for relationshipZ. Add up all of your Fixed, Mutable and Cardinal signZ... so say u are a Libra (Cardinal sign) and say most of your planetZ in your horoscope are in Fixed signZ (since u are an air sign Libra, you have to pick one of the three air signZ) u will have whatZ called a Quality Element of Aquarius, because Aquarius is the only Fixed Air Sign.

      So relationshipZ with Aquarius for a Libra (with a majority of Fixed Sign planetZ) would be awesum... The next best indicator of a possibly great relationship would be the placement of the Moon and the house it is located in. Since the moon changeZ signZ every 2.5 dayZ or so, u need a program to chart it.

      The Moon receiveZ a lot of attention because it'Z the ruler of your emotionZ and feelingZ and when there is a compatible Moon in your partnerZ chart - all thingZ are possible! So if u "feel" thingZ together - u often stay together!

      • i don't know, it's all so confusing.
        • Okay-far and balanced Libras that I love so much- dont base it all on the sun sign- if you have complementary moons-rising signs-
          or suns-or a combination it can work. Or they have Libra in one of those areas-or a lot of air.Of course basing who you are going to get involved with on a bad experience,people are not all their astrological chart,-because there are many versions of charts-as I'm finding out- and you could miss out on something great.
      • Unsu...
         
        "The Moon receiveZ a lot of attention because it'Z the ruler of your emotionZ and feelingZ and when there is a compatible Moon in your partnerZ chart - all thingZ are possible! So if u "feel" thingZ together - u often stay together! "

        That makes total sense! My Moon is in Leo, My man's is in Libra.
        • Tahja - OMG - your Moon is in Leo and your man's moon is in Libra - soundz like your moon's make what is called a sextile (depending on the exact degree of each moon)... u want them to be within 8 degrees to form the sextile... more than 8 degrees and they are still compatible, but not necessarily as "locked" in.

          Also what's interesting is the fact that you have the Fixed Sign (Leo) moon and your man has the Cardinal Sign (Libra) moon. This is one of those magical connections we hear about! :)(:

          BTW, having your partners moon and in certain cases Venus in your first house or vice versa usually creates one of those instant attractions that everyone longs for... if u have this configuration, consider yourself very lucky and do everything to preserve and keep the relationship healthy and vibrant! :)(:
      • that would be great if i could just read it past the "Z" thing. why do you do that?

        to answer the question:

        i've been most compatible overall with leos, aquarius, and aries. capricorns--female friends only! i have been attracted to capricorn males in the past, but it never works. i now try to avoid them at all costs.

        it's funny, because my current relationship is with a virgo, and my last one was with a scorpio, and the one before that with a taurus. i'm still very good friends with the taurus, don't speak to the scorp. current virgo and i get along great--the only issue being that he is not as romantic/affectionate as i, and it takes some adjustment sometimes.

        another sign i try to avoid altogether is pisces. i think we are way too evolved for them, they feel insecure, and then hate us. ;)
  • Okay caveat: I know Cancer is one of our most incompatible signs... I'd just like to know what you all think of this combo.

    me: libra sun, pisces moon, leo rising
    him: cancer sun, pisces moon, pisces rising

    Honest replies appreciated!
    • Unsu...
       
      Run.

      Seriously, though. I'm no expert, but I've found cancers to have communication issues. Since the pisces is highly imaginative, I'm picturing someone with intense emotions who doesn't communicate well and has an active imagination. If you can establish and accept the reality of one another early, this could work. If you wait too long to "get real" about each other... that cancer could develop a huge fantasy of what your mutual reality looks like and never let go of it.

      I could be totally wrong about this. My experience with Cancers has been largely negative.
      • My experiences with Cancers...it seems they are way more willing to take than give sometimes...energy wise.

        My three lovers are:
        Gemini...great communication...fabulous kisser
        Virgo..stability and somewhat possesive but getting better
        Taurus...sweet, grounded, sexy and doesn't get mad if I dont call for awhile.

        Had Scorpio lovers...whooo..hot sex, nothing more
        I think I need to meet a Sagittarius man...I've had great Sag friends..no loves yet
  • I never thought it would work--but I think Libra Libra combinatino is the hottest and really comforting. Even thoguh Libra's can think alike-I think the rising is key and the moon is really fundamental. The sun sign, in my opinion, provides a general framewor which feels really great!
    • Hi cutie pies.

      I got lucky! I'm head over heels, madly in love with a Cancer. He is kind, strong, intelligent, hot as sin, and my very best friend. We've been together for going on 13 years. Had some huge bumps in the road around year 4 but kept on plugging. Got married after ten years, and I can't imagine a happy life without him. I think Cancers are very loyal to their lovers. True, mine is very, very cerebral, but that isn't a bad thing to me. I think that patience has come in to play in our relationship, as it should in any, on both sides, being compassionate, and asking for more of an explanation if there is any verbal misunderstanding. My guy is quiet and rather pensive, but it works well with the Libra babble. And last, I have never been so comfortable as with him...and I guess thats just being best buds.

      What's funny is that I have a cancer friend, a girl, and she has some of the characteristics that a lot of you have mentioned...so again, I think that I got lucky in love.

      Adore Pisces as friends and family but no way, no how do I mesh with them romantically. Too damn needy and jealous.
      • I am one of the lucky Libra and Cancer parings as well! My husband is a Cancer (July 19th) and I am a Libra (Oct. 19th). We got married a few years ago and he is absolutely the love of my life, and I could not ask for a more wonderful husband. He thinks that he has a hard exterior, but he is the most kind hearted, sweet, generous, caring, thoughtful person that I have ever met. I absolutely agree with Sparrow that Cancers are very loyal! That "tough crab" of mine will fiercely defend me and my sensitive Libra need to be liked by everyone at all times. Cancers are also supposed to be very protective and like to take care of others and nurture them, my husband definitely does that, and I love it, obviously that wouldn't work so well for a very independent Libra.

        Since from what I've heard, Libra men don't like to be tied down and are VERY social, and Cancer females are supposedly very clingy and introverts, I can see why that would not be a good paring. Maybe it's just Cancer males and Libra women that can work out?