Hi Lindsay,

Thanks for your reply ! I really appreciate it !!!

It seems that everytime I desappear he keeps coming around..Like this morning, he left me a message asking me if I wanted to see him because he had many things on his mind and he wanted to discuss them with me..I saw his facebook profile and there's this one girl that writes him all the time and she seems to be suffering for his attention...
I hate games, but it looks like I have to with this one, he always tells me that he can't really figure me out just yet....I'm like this mysterious thing...


I hardly give him any attention as he knows that I like him I've told him on one occasion..but I also do my thing, he clearly sees it on my facebook profile...

I'm a lady of my word, whatever I say I do it !

Yet again, I'm the one that found him first... He knows I'm all about truth...

Why is it so complicated ? Yet, I'm wondering the reason why he comes around randomly is it because he still wants me to stay interested?
I give him his vital space and all the freedom he needs...
I guess i have to be extra patient...Yet, libras seek attention so much, will I be able to trust him once we're an item ?

Thanks again !

Well I last time we saw each other I asked him if he was seeing someone and he answered yes..So there you go !!

However, he did say that she's just there in the mean time until he finds someone else...I'd love to believe that !! Hardly, I can't ...

Everytime I leave he keeps coming around just to see if I'm still interested... I did confront him with that and he didn't take it very well...he did pour his heart to me a couple of weeks back, saying how amazing and unique I was, telling me he wanted to see more of me...and that he wanted me to be in his life in any shape and form..he didn't wanted to lose me....i guess he sees me more of a friend then anything else or maybe he's just in love with the fantasy of me ??...But not the reality of me ??


He asked to call to go for coffee and he never returned my call, he came around 4 days later on MSN, saying: '' Hello Uniqueness''

I never answered...He came back yesterday to wish me happy birthday saying he was going to call to sing to me ...as you can guess...he never did !!!

Yup ! Big time flirt I say....More of a heartbreaker...

Besides, a person that really wants you, will never take the chance to lose you ...right??


I clearly know that he doesn't know what he wants and it's certainly not me....


Why do guys always pin point our faults, like you thrive on knowing our faults....so you can just make excuses and it would be just easier to walk away...saying oh! well...there you go...she's not that perfect after all....

FYI : No one is perfect ! I wish I was.... I guess that's what makes me human...


I never invaded his privacy or showed me more then what I was receiving...


It's just so sad...i guess age is really a number after all....


Many thanks for your support !

Hi Karina !


Thank you for taking the time to reply....

Actually I have no idea.... He did call for my birthday to tell me that he adored me and wanted to get together anytime soon...

I do understand what you're saying as my friend told me the same thing...I know it's a difficult time for him at this point in his life...he's going through many things and since he's the type of person that thinks too much...he just needs time on his own for now..


However, a phone call would help !!

I'm not going to die for a person like that.....to my opinion, he's just slowly fading away, because he can't bare the thought of saying the truth, becasue he just can't deal with it, or maybe hurting someone...??...


I let life guide this one !

If we're meant to be, then it will just happen in any shape or form... But in REAL life...if you really like someone, you never take the chance to lose this person... I'm talking from experience

There's more cons than pros with this situation...

I won't stop living, because of a person that seems too busy to even say hello...I mean come on ! How hard can it be ??

I'm very busy as well and I always find the time to return calls..might take a while, but I eventually do...

I'm keeping my options open...


It's just a shame ... I'm probably meant to be with someone else and probably happier and I won't stop him from finding happiness if it's not with me...

He clearly doesn't know what he wants.... Thats another problem !! I wont stay by a person side by knowing that this person is in constant mode of rebalancing his ideas especially when it comes to my person...

How can I trust a person like that ??



Thanks again !!