I've been attracted to many Libra women, and I've gotten close to Libra women as friends, but, like I said, I've never dated one. An astrologer pointed out that libra is one of the best signs for me, an Aries man, so here I am. I'm less interested in hearing from those of your who have dated an Aries and more interested in simply hearing about YOUR perception of yourselves as partners. So watcha got for me?
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Re: Never dated a Libra...but curious.
Mon, January 1, 2007 - 9:59 PMwell , I feel as a libra there is so much swirling in my head, thoughsts, feelings, revelations by the minute, I need a really grounded partner that can be somewhat linear to my all circuits going now approach. I need to talk everything out, so a good listener is key.
I need to be seduced with intellect. A smart guy who can communicate is catnip. But I don't know how much that has to do with being a LIbra.
Ok definitely have a clean apartment. We notice where things are, the cleanliness, the fend shui of it all.
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Re: Never dated a Libra...but curious.
Tue, January 2, 2007 - 10:29 AMAny astrologer who says who is "best" for you based on your Sun sign (and then the opposition) should be taken with a huge grain of salt and caution!
Aries and Libras can make good friends, maybe even relationships, but it won't be easy and there will be fights... or maybe just all love. It's 50/50.
Take everything you like about yourself... and realize that it's everything a Libra would find horrible.
Yeah... 50/50.
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Re: Never dated a Libra...but curious.
Wed, April 2, 2008 - 9:57 AMWell, I do have a lot of water in my chart, so that may have an influence, but generally I like to be a "teammate" sort of partner in that my partner and I help each other and complement each other. I like to be romantic and I like to make my guy feel good about himself; I tend to do a bit of "hero-worship" if I really like a guy and can be forgiving of many faults (although on the bad side I am *very* jealous and some things I do not forgive are infidelity, unwanted physical advances, and constantly bringing up old flames; I also get pretty unhappy if their is no deep emotional connection). I expect a lot from a partner and thus I don't often fall for people; I like partners to be creative, intelligent, intellectual, sophisticated, cultured, interesting, artistic, sweet, compassionate, romantic, philsophical, a good conversationalist and a good listener, patient, and there are some other things thrown in there; in all fairness, though, I try to give what I ask from people and I am very loyal when I love; I won't even *look* at another guy because in my eyes they don't measure up to whoever I like at the moment. I like for us to see each other as equals and for us to work together/have shared input on things.
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Re: Never dated a Libra...but curious.
Thu, April 3, 2008 - 4:23 AMAll of the Arts, Sensitivity, Love for Nature and all Life, But most important...
Truth and Integrity!
Even when it hurts, especially when it hurts ;-)
Oh, did I forget?
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Re: Never dated a Libra...but curious.
Mon, April 7, 2008 - 12:40 AMAires adn Libras are polar oppisites! Itll work as good as oil and water mix! -
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Re: Never dated a Libra...but curious.
Mon, April 7, 2008 - 4:56 AMyeah in my experience, libra and aries couldnt be more different especially an aries with a capricorn moon , for example .
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Re: Never dated a Libra...but curious.
Tue, July 15, 2008 - 7:19 AMI'm a Libra and I dated and Aries, my moms and Aries and I have an Aries daughter lol So..YEA =D But Aries can be really jealous at times...I think Aries admires Libra's beauty and charm but when others admire it... well it brings out the competition. And Libra, as you will find out hates discord. So this will either break your relationship or hurt it one. SO if you do meet Libra just talk to Libra about whats really going on inside. Hope ya do meet one..they are rare breeds these days >.< -
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Re: Never dated a Libra...but curious.
Tue, July 15, 2008 - 7:04 PMAsch and Oscar summed most of what my pre-requisites are.
Intellect will sway me strongest every time as well as neatness (just the difference between two twins, Don with a hair style and clean coordinated clothes and cologne, the other Dan rather disheveled with faded T and a thumbsize tear in the underarm area, even though Dan is taller and subtly cuter? I am making the date with Don).
And untidy or discordant surroundings will unbalance me to near nervous breakdown. They got to be pretty steady for it to work longer than a hot flash in the sack.
My Aries was too.. unambitious? He had big money, attracted me,but all he did was play. Play is great. But when someone needs to say no, it was always me. His grandparents loved me, like vultures waiting for a meal they wished for us to be solid and have t he social elite wedding adn habd th ekingdom keys to me to safeguard. I felt more like a mommy than someone's princess on a pedastal. And non committal? Geez! Even a Libra can decide eventually!!! And later (like over a year?) I was the one that got away. Had a few exs make that claim. But A: had to HAVE me. So had to commit to some degree_ B: Got away means I said goodbye, not you!
He was a fashion police warrant dodger that actually was removed from his grandparents country club premises. He was insecure and prone to complain a lot. He was greagarious and had a lil fan club of geek freinds to be his "yes men". Behind the doors? He was rapacious, adventurous and frenzied. He was affectionate, possessive and worried a lot. And with al that monye? All he did was opena comic bok store and take scuba diving and philosphy for his "college". And values were opposing. Me=want big family/He=wants zero children. Still I adored him in many ways. But before I was finished comitting to loving him sole and alone, he just gave me too many red flags!
So far as I know he is still single with roomates.
And that is what a rather sedate earthy aspected Libra thought of a mid month Aries.
My Dad was an Aries and I adored him, but I think he was an exceptional type.
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