OK so I've known this for awhile but every scorpio I date turns out to be a major drama king... No more. It seems like all of my long term relationships are with Scorpios and they all turn out very ugly. Anyone else have this issue?
I'm really in need of venting. If I can blame it on the Scorpio thing it might make it easier for me to move through this breakup easier.
Anyone care to assist?
I'm really in need of venting. If I can blame it on the Scorpio thing it might make it easier for me to move through this breakup easier.
Anyone care to assist?
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Re: No more Scorpios
Sun, June 1, 2008 - 9:55 PMscorpio and libra are 2 very different people mentally
scorpio is emotional and deep and spiritual
libra is none of these , on average .
libra likes freedom
scorpio likes accountability
2 very conflicting agendas from the get-go
only positive in this combo is the potentially hot x-rated sex !
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Mon, June 2, 2008 - 6:49 AMI can agree with that. Maybe the sex is the attracting factor. I just know that everytime I try a scorpio there is a lot of pain and drama involved. -
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Mon, June 2, 2008 - 11:52 AMRhonda - i am cusp scorpio/sagg. but relate to scorpio more for sure
mars and uranus in libra so i relate to libra a bit more than not , I guess ...
was married to a sun libra for 5 hellish torturous years and made the mistake of having a child with her ...
she has pretty much abandoned our son, moved out of state a couple years ago, doesn't help me at all with money or anything unless it's completely convenient to her schedule or whims at the time ....
she was the most un-trustworthy tricky manipulating female i've ever been involved with .....
an out and out slut as it turned out ... not at all wired to be in a committed relationship .... and admittedly not into being a mom ...
The sex was however, pretty intense and electric and porn star like... I have to admit .... the only real positive to being with her that whole time ....
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Thu, June 5, 2008 - 1:36 AMI have Libras falling out of the sky at me!!! I just ended a relationship with a Libra and 2 of them have been talking to me.
I really NEED to stay away from Libras (the last relationship ended very badly). He called me bipolar! Yes, I'm emotional but I fed off his constant back and forth hot and cold shit he'd pull. One day he'd be warm and friendly and we would laugh and joke... the next he'd be a complete and total ass to me. So of course I got defensive and reacted accordingly.
I love how Libras lighten me up but at times they also bring out the worst in me due to the constant tipping of the scales. It's so confusing.
Scorpio is the sign of extreams... either one extream or the other. AND fixed. Once I'm set in a decision it's very hard for me to budge.
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Thu, June 5, 2008 - 3:42 AMHey this was supposed to be about no more Scorpios... hehehe.
I can relate with both of you on the sex and passion piece. I find the Scorpio that I was involved with to be extremely flaky and indecisive. I finally sent him a please don't contact me ever again email only to get a million calls and emails. When he finally wore me down I emailed him. We had the most passionate and loving reconciliation talks but at the end of the day he said he only did those things to get me to talk to him so he could have closure. Very frustrating. Now I have to avoid him at all costs. -
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Quit flaming Scorpios!
Fri, June 6, 2008 - 10:25 AMNow people, it's understandable that astrology is going to primarily used to understand
interpersonal relationships, but that is *not* what it was built for. I would think that blaming
behavior solely on Sun sign would be a higher constricting way to comprehend what goes
on. I had a Scorpio girlfriend at one time, and I admit that it was rather stereotypical. As a
Libran, I was somewhat flighty and wishywashy earlier in life, and I did like my freedom.
She was dark, mysterious, and had a heck of a time expressing her emotions, but this was
not simply because of her Sun sign, her father was an abusive alcoholic. So, reductionism
gets no one anywhere. But, there is some truth in it. But the system was not built solely for
sexual affiliations. It was built for self-knowledge of soul-line incarnations, among other things.
So I personally find it frustrating that in popular culture it is at its end point brought down
only to carousing for romantic relationships, of whatever type. As fellow Librans, I'm sure
you could see my point. Even the Virgos and Scorps can understand what I mean. -
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Fri, June 6, 2008 - 2:35 PMYes agreed but at this point it is easier for me to deal with my pain by putting it in the Scorpio bucket. I will probably dig deeper as time goes on to find the real reason the relationship failed but for now him being a Scorpio works.
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Sat, June 7, 2008 - 8:26 PMthe prob here that i have found, is that it is sexuality that sparks the attraction and that alone cannot sustain a relationship. both love to pick eachothers minds apart and will enjoy an equal match intellectually. The libra must learn more depth and the scorpio must learn LOYALTY in the sexual area . its awesome combo for libras who like a challenge and drama and alot of make up sex- -
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Sun, June 8, 2008 - 11:49 AMthe problem is not with the average scorpio being loyal lindsay ... it is by FAR the challenge for the average libra ... clearly . -
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Sun, June 8, 2008 - 11:54 AMOversimplifications. Who really likes being oversimplified by a mate.
No wonder so many romances fail! What did I just post?
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Sun, June 8, 2008 - 12:45 PMwell both of em have a hard time with loyalty but in different ways. i personally dont know one scorpio guy who doesnt cheat on his girl and i know quite a few , but who knows maybe its just the people i know or something in thr water here in utah -
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Sun, June 8, 2008 - 5:29 PMUtah's got tons of repressed energies.
What's new? I was in upstate Utah a
little over a year ago, and I just thought
the populace was mostly a bunch of
Stepford people. -
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Sun, June 8, 2008 - 9:40 PMUtah is deff one of a kind. I've lived here since i was 8 and was raised lds and all and it can seriously be hard for a kid who wants to find out who they are without having to live up to mormon parents expectations- its kinda sad really . so its like people are like good or bad and its hard to find people in the middle, kinda where i consider myself to be. We do have alot of beautiful people here tho.. Alot of scorpio guys here i know are like the anti christ but i still love em -
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Sun, June 8, 2008 - 9:48 PMutah ... gag .
stepford type people : gag
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Sun, June 8, 2008 - 11:58 AM"scorpio and libra are 2 very different people mentally"
Synergy, you say you are Scorp/Sag, right?
I have a few friends round about there.
I am Libra/Scorp cusp. I am those two combined,
largely. Slightly more Libra, with some other
influences also.. those other influences matter
quite a bit! So, first lets learn all the signs of the
zodiac, and how they affect each other, can we?
Before beginning to presume things?
"scorpio is emotional and deep and spiritual
libra is none of these , on average."
So incredibly wrong! -
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Sun, June 8, 2008 - 8:42 PMWhere do I read about my sign? I don't understand all the sun, rising, etc... yet. Please help *begging* -
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Sun, June 8, 2008 - 9:30 PMrhonda, just go to astro.com and request a free birth chart reading. u just type in you birthday, birth time and location and it will process it 4 u -
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Mon, June 9, 2008 - 7:10 AMSun - Libra
Moon - Aries
Asc - Aquarius
Is there a cheat sheet from here? -
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Mon, June 9, 2008 - 10:43 AMwow that's a fun chart! now i believe u when u say your crazy as hell! hahaha ! jk, i'm sure u have a very entertaining life am i right -
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Mon, June 9, 2008 - 4:55 PMIt's always exciting. NEVER a dull moment. Sometimes I even want to hide from myself. What is yours? -
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Wed, June 25, 2008 - 2:29 AMI have a capricorn moon and virgo rising....god.
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Sun, June 8, 2008 - 9:26 PMworm - in my experience, this is completely accurate what I said .
i stand by it .
but i will say that sagg. and libra is a good combo, if for mostly sex and play ... -
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Sun, June 8, 2008 - 10:23 PMI'm a Libra but I dont get along well with Sags, sexually and otherwise. -
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Wed, July 23, 2008 - 7:10 AMWorm is correct. It's the whole chart and not the sun sign. If you're just going to look at sun signs, frankly you might as well not bother. If you want to use Astrology to look at relationships you need to look at both charts and see how they interact. The synastry changes you both which causes a dynamic to occur. That's based on much more than your suns.
If you looked at my sun you would make the huge mistake of thinking you were dealing with a Libra. If you were a very Libra Libra dealing with me and you thought that you would incredibly frustrated within 10 minutes. That's about how long it would take my Scorpio Asc, Scorpio Rising and Libra/Scorpio cusp to rip the veneer off of something and shove the truth in your face. And that would occur after some highly social Libra kept pushing a topic wanting me to respond in a similar socially pretty way. I have lots of Libra friends and have my entire life. Many of these act very Libran because of their entire charts and this is what we run into. Others are on the cusp and get along much better with me. Some are on the cusp with much more Libra, Gemini Sag influences going on and I knock them for a loop. They all vary to some degree. If the right things exist, our charts clash from time to time.
Let's say you just looked at my sun sign for compatibility. Wrong again. There is absolutely nothing romantically or physically appealing to me about Geminis, Librans, Leos or Sags which are all supposed to appeal to my Libra. They don't. I can be friends with them and I am, but nothing else will ever happen there. On the other hand, I am great with Aquarians where many of my Libra friends crash and burn with them. There's something about the combination of my chart and the third week of Aquarius that creates a very tight bond and an instant/lasting attraction. It doesn't happen in the other weeks and I've run into a few in that week where it didn't happen at all. What I've noticed is that there are big similarities in those charts where it does happen. There's good moon compatibility, good symmetry in our Aquarius connections, and lots of Pluto, Mars, Asc and Sun going on. We even have Neptune and Jupiter connections that lead to good intellectual connections. It's the whole picture. You could chalk that up to Libra and Aquarian compability but if you did you would be wrong. There isn't one of them who can get along with any of the Libras I know unless they are cuspers like me. The dynamic would be different.
As for Scorpio, I had a relationship with a Scorpio for a couple of years. Great sex, great friends and it didn't get any deeper. We are still great friends. He's married now and I couldn't be happier for him. He's a wonderful person AND completely faithful. (He's also absolutely phenomenal sexually.) Why did we click? Well our charts synch up well and we met at exactly the right time in both our lives so that we were just what we needed then. When it was time to move on because it could no longer be what we needed, I ended it. No games. No passive/aggressive crap. We moved on.
Could I have been with him if I was much more Libra? I don't really know. He'd be pretty brutally honest and intense for someone with much more Libra than I have. The Scorpio parts of him understood the Scorpio parts of me and then some.
I don't know if that helps clarify what Worm said any more or not. Hopefully it did. -
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Wed, July 23, 2008 - 2:55 PMZanne your "story" sounds very common to me accept the Leos (i do recognize them or they me) az matter of fact i don't like scorpios as well
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Wed, July 23, 2008 - 5:13 PMZanne,
Your posts tend to crack me up a bit, because, for the most part, it seems as if you are talking about me, when you are describing yourself. Indeed, you would think that because I have a Libra Sun, Libra Moon, Libra Saturn, and Libra Pluto, I would be the archetypal, highly social, highly flirtatious, lighthearted Libra that you read so much about by astrologers. WRONG! I was *never* a social butterfly, and I *never* cared much for small talk and flirtatious banter that you read so much about. My moods and thoughts were always deep, intense and more of a darker, brooding quality. Plus, I tend to scare off the kinds of people who are all about lighthearted banter, and keeping up appearances. Plus, like you, the people I tend to attract (and are attracted to) are usually NOT the signs that are said to go best with Libra: I've never really had any Libra friends or girlfriends, and the same goes for Aries, Leo, Sagittarius and Aquarius. And if there ever *was* attraction between me and any of these other signs, it was usually surface attraction - nothing that touched me on a deep level (though I should stop right there, and say that the 2nd of only 3 girls I fell deeply for, was an Aquarius, but she had a Scorpio moon.) Same goes for Gemini; no friends or girlfriends (but I have lots of Gemini family members, including both my parents, but that's a different story).
But, there *was* a constant pattern that I have noticed in most of my best friends and girlfriends and/or potential girlfriends throughout my life thus far: most were/are either Cancers, Virgos or Scorpios (and if not, they would have prominent placements, and/or a cluster of planets in either of those signs.) The first girl I ever *fell* for (and the feeling was mutual) was a Cancer. And likewise, most of my friends during that time were Cancers as well. I also had many Scorpio friends, who, without me even meeting them (but glancing at them), I could tell we would have a deep-soul connection. After we would meet up and exchange conversations, they would be the ones who end up telling me stuff like, "Me and you are the same," "you know me inside and out," and "I feel like you are my long-lost brother." Of course, sometimes, two Scorpio types may also cause each other hell, and there were one or two Scorpio friends I had, where we would clash ALL the time, since we knew how to push each-others buttons. I also had lots of Virgo friends, and many of them were also potential love interests (one I actually was with for a short period of time, but we agreed at the end of it, that we were better off as friends. There was no bitterness afterwards, and the third girl I've ever fell deeply for was also a Virgo.) Although I have 4 placements in Libra, I also have 4 placements in Scorpio (my Ascendant, Mercury, Mars and Uranus.) Plus, I should mention that Scorpio's ruler, Pluto, conjuncts my Libra Sun and Libra Moon, so that may *also* add to the "corrupting" influence that this all has on what may have otherwise been a more lighthearted disposition in me. My closest friend as of current is actually a Sagittarius, but he is also a Moon conjunct Pluto and a Venus Scorpio. We were never actually close for me to consider him a friend when we first met, but it's only as of recent that we became closer. -
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Sat, August 2, 2008 - 1:38 PMScorpio here - methinks Rhonda needs to accept some culpability for her own contributions (or lacking) in the relationship
Thinking you can "blame" the demise of the relationship based entirely on Sun Sign placement is a sign of juvenile
behaviour as well as irresponsible.
If you two were not compatible, then so be it, take a gander at his chart and try to take the time (not the quick answer)
to read up on what natal signs mean and perhaps, when starting your next relationship or becoming interested
in someone new, take it upon yourself to garner information so as to be able to do a chart on them.
Though, moving forward or quelling potential of relationships based solely on charting is also not very smart.
Each of us have our own perspective and life experiences which add to the big picture.
So I'm with Worm - quit flaming Scorpios - life is not black and white like that.
Me: Scorpio Sun, Mercury, Venus & Jupiter - Libra Moon & Mars - Sagittarius Rising -
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Tue, August 19, 2008 - 7:48 AMWell... DUH. Like I said earlier... just venting.
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Mon, August 4, 2008 - 12:17 PMcorpio is emotional and deep and spiritual
libra is none of these , on average .
waaiiiiit a minute..you are wrong
Libra likes to look good and play tough..but really they are spiritual and emotional. But emotions deceive and being a sign of justice...Libra will not stand for injustice...
My emotions have got the better of me.. I have played the games of who will win in the end and trust me everyone gets burned... it goes up in flames.. -
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Tue, August 12, 2008 - 1:22 AMi have dated scorpios before....and it always ends up turning out BAD...i dont know what it is but scorpio never worked for me...it starts out nice and eventually ends in drama!!!!!!!!!!!!! -
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Tue, August 19, 2008 - 7:49 AMamen... that was my point.
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Tue, August 19, 2008 - 10:21 AMoh y'all cant get enough of us scorpz
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