Curious Scorpio

topic posted Fri, April 18, 2008 - 1:52 AM by  mel
I'm a Scorpio sun/moon Taurus rising.
Its a rather long story but I've recently become friends with a Libra man. His moon is in Pisces Sag rising. We both have Venus in Scorpio and Mars in Cap.
Long story short I'd he and I have a mutual friend. He saw me out but I'm really not very talkative and we didn't speak but he asked our friend for my number. I started getting texts from him like crazy! I didn't even know who he was since we were never formally introduced. He text me for a couple months before I finally warmed up to him and we started hanging out. Once I got to know him I saw how charming he was. He brings me out of my shell and makes me smile (which is rare).
We finally hit it off and became intimate. Amazing chemisty!!!
Now... he has backed off alot. He's gone on the weekends for his job and when he's back he still wants to see me but my scorpy intuition can just see him getting more and more distant. He told a friend that he liked me and he'd "marry me in a heartbeat" but to my face nothing! To be fair since he backed off it hurt me and I became a little sarcastic and cold to him on the phone but when we are together he acts as though nothing is wrong. And his smile! Grrr... makes me weak and Scorpions have no room for weakness.
I just would like a little insight from you Libras. If he isn't serious then I'm moving on. It's not for me to just "play" or to be messed around with. I have too much pride (and a little fear of being hurt) to ask him how he feels but if I have to... then I'll do it.
Thanks for the help!!!
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  • Re: Curious Scorpio

    Fri, April 18, 2008 - 4:25 AM
    Ah!
    He has apparently NOT made up his mind.
    They can be wishsy-washy :(
    (like I havent,lol)
    When it comes to affairs of the heart, they have difficulty commiting...only because they want to know if your reationship can endure after the intimacy.
    They want to be 'sure' and will put you through the 'acid test'.
    They also need to be worshipped and admired at all times.
    Good luck, you'll need it ;-)
  • Re: Curious Scorpio

    Fri, April 18, 2008 - 1:47 PM
    had similar experience with a fellow venus in scorpio ...
    she's sagg sun and aries moon and that hyper-individualist thing reared its ugly head and that was the end .... but the sex and physical chemistry was great and pretty intense while it lasted .......

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      Re: Curious Scorpio

      Thu, April 24, 2008 - 2:16 AM
      Thanks for the replies. I'm hurt by his backing off and I'm trying so hard not to retailiate but it's hard. I'm starting to think we just aren't compatible and I will have to walk away before I get too attatched. Once attached I don't like to let go.
      Besides he flirts alot (which I know is a Libra trait) but he almost seems like he rubs my face in it. NOT a smart thing to do with a Scorpio! That and I'm almost sure I caught him in a lie about another girl.
      Messing with my jealous nature is the ultimate turn off. No matter how charming his smile is and how sweetly he tries to smooth things over with me I think I've had enough.
      I just do not understand why he'd make the effort he did if he wasn't going to take me seriously.
      Ugh!
      • Re: Curious Scorpio

        Mon, July 14, 2008 - 2:52 PM
        Yea Libras are flirty.. lol I am very bad XD But also.. you got to remember that Libra is an air sign and ur water. Its like a balloon Libras are hard to get focused on just one thing or person unless you pursue him.
      • Re: Curious Scorpio

        Mon, July 14, 2008 - 7:19 PM
        I'm on both sides of this fence being Libra Sun but Libra/Scorpio Cusp, Scorpio Asc and Rising and Taurus Moon. I'm all the way with you on this one Mel. I have tons of Libra friends and they all strike me as total insincere flakes when it comes to relationships. I try to be understanding because we're all friends, but seriously... Oh wait. That's the problem.

        The problem for you is that Libras react right out of the gate with "I'm in LOVE!" and go after it with everything in them. Once they get it, they stop to think for a change and over analyze whether this can possibly be the one. Most (and this goes for everything I'm saying) are inveterate flirts, polite liars (meaning they lie because they can't stand the ugliness of the truth) and commitment phobes. The whole time they are lying to you and cheating on you they are convincing themselves that they are doing it all to save you pain. That's because THEY don't like the truth themselves and find it too painful. That isn't going to cut it with you over time anyway so it's best for you to decide HE'S not for you and walk away rather than giving the game over to him. Libras are charming and great lovers, but unless a whole lot is going on in that chart besides Libra and Sag, this person isn't going to be serious enough or committed enough for you. Besides, Scorpios can't stand people who hide from the truth no matter how ugly it is. They will dig it up and hold the other person by the hair while they show it to them because they NEED to know! That is going to destroy a Libra in no time. They would rather live with a lie as long as possible than face an ugly truth right away even if it saves them hurt in the long run. That's just the way they are. And sharp words? You might as well bring a knife to a debate.

        From your eyes he's going to end up looking like a handsome Narciss staring at his own face in a mud puddle. Libras are what they are. If you want to go that route, you need to find a Libra full of Scorpio like me. :o)

        Okay and don't pound on me, Libras. You know that Scorpios are too harsh for you even though they are great sex.
  • Re: Curious Scorpio

    Mon, July 14, 2008 - 2:37 PM
    Okay this may or may not help you, but I read somewhere that if you want a Libra man you have to call him, and basically go after him. I'm a Libra female but have dated a Libra male before and this seems to be the case. But my personality is not the cat and mouse game so maybe thats why the men are like that. Libras can be lazy.. But consider yourself lucky.. at least you had sex. My first love was a Libra in highschool and he broke my heart =*( we never did anything.. But now... that would be a different story ;) Good Luck
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      Re: Curious Scorpio

      Mon, July 14, 2008 - 11:44 PM
      It's been awhile since I posted this... but yeah. It's OVER.
      Libras just aren't for me. It was great to be feel light hearted and "sunny" but it was an illusion. As was said before he avoids any kind of unpleasentness like a disease. If something he found too deep came along he'd get this deer in the headlight look and totally avoid it. That floors me. I'm Scorpy enough to take on those challenges with a vengence and get down and dirty to bring things to the surface.
      And yes, he lied serveral times about other women.
      I told him to lose my number and leave me alone... and I meant it. Enough was enough.
      • Re: Curious Scorpio

        Tue, July 15, 2008 - 7:04 AM
        Wow sorry to hear about that Scorp.. but I wouldnt let that scare you off from Libras. My first love who was also Libra did that and it tore my heart in two.... strangely enough I havent run into another LIbra since. I keep attracting all the fire signs for some reason..
        • Re: Curious Scorpio

          Tue, July 15, 2008 - 7:58 PM
          IN general, I cannot stand the libra thing with being superficial and avoiding anything unpleasant or dirty, etcetra ... the scorpio in me as the other person said, is happy to surge right into adversity and have a go , anytime ... The fake feeling of the so called sweetness and light with libras ... yeah, I can't stand it ... pure bullshit ... (overall )
          Have even experienced this with women with libra moon ...
          Waiting for a libra woman to come along and show me that she isn't that way ... I won't hold my breath ...

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